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Showing posts with label emotional stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotional stories. Show all posts

Saturday, October 26, 2013

A Story Hidden Between Shades of Gray: An Interview With Ruta Sepetys

A hidden story was brought back to life with Ruta Sepety's writing, a story not black and white, but hidden between shades of gray. It started the very day the author went to visit her father's place in Lithuania. The room was warm; a fireplace was by the corner, giving warmth to each and every person's words. Ms. Sepety's wanted to see pictures of her grandfather, and she was utterly surprised by the response. The room was silent, and there was small murmurs here and there in Lithuanian. Half Lithuanian from her dad's side, Ruta knew something was up. She was shocked when everyone softly responded, "Ruta, we burned them all. We couldn't let anyone know that we were related to your grandfather." The atmosphere in the room was not the same after those words were secretly revealed.

The story is too painful to bear, but at the same time beautiful, as it was shared in Ruta's novel Between Shades of Gray. It was the time when the three countries Estonia, Lithuania, and Latvia were under the control of the Soviets, and children to seniors were put in labor camps, receiving the cruelest of cruelest actions, from words to abuse. This is a story that very few people know; World War II occurred right after that. However, as the author wanted the world to know what happened, history is known through her emotional yet brilliant book. Although the characters are not real, they are so realistic because Ms. Sepety's connected them to the world and her grandfather is beautiful ways.
Below is a video with the author describing her true story, a remarkable one hidden between shades of gray. 

I have seen posts of bloggers interviewing well-known authors, so I thought that I would give it a shot emailing Ms. Sepety's, and I was surprised by the positive response. Man, I was so excited; I sent my questions immediately. Then, a month later I received answers, and after watching the video, you guys must feel the same about wanting more of her personal thoughts. Here is the interview:

  1. What emotions did you feel when writing Between Shades of Gray?

RS - Sadness and surprise. I felt extreme sadness about the suffering and I was also continually surprised that this history is not yet widely known throughout the world.  

2. I have heard that you have a personal story behind Between Shades of Gray. Can you please elaborate on that?

RS - My father is represented in the book by the character of Joana. My father and grandparents fled from Lithuania. Following their departure, some of my grandfather's family was deported to Siberia.  

3. Did you have any passion for writing and reading when you were young? If so, who or what inspired you to read and write?

RS - Yes, I loved reading when I was young. Once I discovered the book "James and the Giant Peach" by Roald Dahl, I was hooked on books and stories! 

4. As I was reading Between Shades of Gray, I grew attached to the characters Lina, Andrius, and surprisingly the grumpy Jewish man, Mr. Stalas. Mr. Stalas also had a personal story to narrate, just with his dialogue. Did you get attached to any characters? If so, how?

RS - I became attached to all of the characters. They felt very real to me because they were created using interviews with survivors who had been deported to Siberia.  

5. Why kind of research did you do in Lithuania for Between Shades of Gray?

RS - My main research was done through interviews with survivors in Lithuania. Dozens of people agreed to share their story with me and I'm so grateful to them!   

6. I am a very emotional and somewhat philosophical person. Did you remember your grandfather when writing this book? By writing Between Shades of Gray, you didn't only honor him, but you were a voice for thousands of Lithuanian survivors and people around the globe. 

RS - Thank you! That is so kind. Yes, I absolutely thought of my grandfather while writing the book. I dedicated the book to him. 

7. Did you connect any characters or aspects from Between Shades of Gray with your family or any Lithuanian survivors that you met?

RS - The main family connection in the book is the character of Joana, who represents my father.  

8. What did you learn after talking to Lithuanian survivors, and what did they tell you?

RS - I learned so much, but the thing that echoes in my head and heart is that we must never 
underestimate the force of life and power of love.  

9. What books do you recommend for young readers?

RS - It's hard to recommend specific books because I know that all readers have different tastes. But I would ask that young readers try not to judge books by their cover. :)

10. How did you get the title "Between Shades of Gray?" What does the title mean to you?

RS - When I began writing the book, I thought the story and facts would be very clear, black and white. But as I began researching, I learned that many things weren't clearly defined and that the truth really existed between layers of gray. 

That's my list of questions. Please feel free to leave most blank. However, if you want to answer most of them, take your time. There's no rush for the answers; it is just the need to ask the questions. 

Thank you so very much for your great questions!!! :) 


It is so kind for Ms. Sepety's to answer my questions, even though she is very busy. Between Shades of Gray means a lot to me, not only in bookish ways like the suspense, but how it affected me as a person. Other than learning about history that very few people know, I understand how life is not black or white. It exists between layers of gray. Life is never extremely jolly or sorrowful; it is complicated with different relations. Moreover, even when something turns out depressing, a good event always comes out from it from a gift from God. For instance, I do not have my best grade in science, even when I work my hardest. There is no point in worrying about it because a good event will be the effect, from learning life's lessons to receiving fulfilled desires. The true existence of life is to have complex yet harmony; there will certainly be a time where you will struggle and face hardships and even times where your days will roll off happily, with no tensions.  

Sunday, September 22, 2013

A Choice Of Living

Short and sweet. These two single words describe  the book If I Stay perfectly. If I Stay, by Gayle Forman, is a heart-wrenching, short 200 page novel that caused my mind to be filed with beautiful questions about life after death. Mia, the book's protagonist, is a musical 17-year-old teenager who hopes to go to Julliard with her cello, otherwise known as her best friend. She never knew that in one single car crash, her dreams will be shattered, but brought back alive. Even though this book was not very long, it was filling and heavy, filled with Mia's flashbacks that changed her as a person. However, it was never sad or depressing, as Mia was brought back alive by her loved ones including Adam, Kim, and her grandpa, known as Gramps. Throughout the story, Mia is never helpless or weak; she listens to the sounds around her with her ears, both perplexed and full of wonderment on whether she has the right to live even when her family is crumbled. If I Stay was a such a powerful and thought-provoking book. Trust me, you will be engaged in Mia's story, full of both captivation and emotion. 


In one chilly morning day, everything changed. Mia and her family went on a family drive, and then, the world revolved into darkness, or was it meant to be dark? Mia has an amazing life; she is a hardworking cellist, has a caring friend, a supportive family, and a great boyfriend named Adam. However, when her whole family dies in a car crash, she is faced with the toughest decision in life, whether or not to live. Mia's brain is shattered, and numerous amounts of doctors help her piece together both physically and mentally. She is aware of everything that goes around her, and when people talk to her when she is in this state, it's beautiful. Her grandfather talks to her while she is in a coma: “It’s okay, If you want to go. Everyone wants you to stay. I want you to stay more than I've ever wanted anything in my life. But that’s what I want and I could see why it might not be what you want. So I just wanted to tell you that I understand if you go. It’s okay if you have to leave us. It’s okay if you want to stop fighting.” These quotes had so much feeling, and my heart broke into shreds of sorrow and joy. It also broke and warmed up when Adam told Mia to stay: “If you stay, I’ll do whatever you want. I’ll quit the band, go with you to New York. But if you need me to go away, I’ll do that, too…maybe going to your old life will be too painful, that maybe it would be easier for you to erase us. And that would suck, but I would do it. I can lose you like that if I don't lose you today. I'll let you go. If you stay." I loathe sappy love stories, but the attachment in this book was not attachment at all. It was poetry, beautiful poetry with feeling, with thought.

Whenever Mia thought to herself if whether her younger brother and parents are dead or angels, my heart throbs out of sadness. The characters in If I Stay were incredible, and they demonstrated love in its many forms. Her grandfather was only mentioned a couple of times, but I heard the way he talked in my mind, and his words made my heart melt. Moreover, when Mia described her friendly friend Kim, she had a longing in her voice that never transformed into cruel desire. Additionally, when Adam talked to her, I was never uncomfortable, disgusted, or grossed out. He did not have attachment, but genuine faith that Mia will grow up to be a talented, kind, and successful woman. All these characters gave Mia hope that she would live, and they knew that she was smart enough to listen. At that time period, when she was ill, she did not have a healthy body. Instead, Mia had a STRONG soul. 

Gayle Forman did an excellent job with If I Stay. The book will reside in your heart forever, and you would never have to worry about being unjust because love in its good amounts will fly like a bird to the best souls. May all the dead live up in heaven, with no one, but only peace with angels.  

Citation for Image:

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